Seduction for Men – Connecting and Laying the Groundwork for True Seduction
If you’re thinking that seduction or seducing your wife or girlfriend is all about learning a bunch of slick lines or mind control tricks, I am sorry to disappoint you. True seduction is about so much more and, when done correctly, is more powerful than any cheesy line that you might think will turn a woman into putty in your hands.
Actually, pickup lines and canned responses can kill the mood and turn a woman off quicker than green grass through a goose. Most women can instinctively detect insincerity and many have heard the same lame lines since they were in puberty. This is why you should learn tried and true seduction techniques and actively practice perfecting the art of seduction from the ground up. So let’s get started!
Women are different than men. This might go without saying but it bears repeating. Where a man might find it very easy to become stimulated or turned on in a matter of a few minutes, a woman typically needs more time to “warm up”. Much like your car on a cold winter morning, if things seemed rushed and consideration of this fact isn’t taken into account you might find yourself sitting on the side of the road wishing you had taken the time to warm her up.
Time taken to connect with your wife or girlfriend will pay a hefty dividend in the end in more ways than one. So, how do you create a strong connection with your partner?
Talking – Time spent talking, or more specifically listening to your wife or girlfriend, will help the two of you to connect. Just a little tip but… women don’t always want you to fix their problems. Understanding and communication will help bring the two of you together and connect on this level. In addition to laying the groundwork for some successful seduction, you will find that your relationship is more healthy overall if you make an effort to spend some alone time talking with your wife or girlfriend.
Touching – Although you might think that touching is a given if you are hoping to seduce your wife or girlfriend, I am talking about a whole different kind of touching. This might take some time and effort for some guys to get in the habit of doing but again, you will find that your relationship in general and the connection with your wife or girlfriend will improve if you simply touch her from time to time. Laying your hand on hers when you’re driving… holding her hand in public… laying your hand on her back or touching her each time you are near her, even briefly, will make a profound impact on her. The connection that a simple touch creates is utter magic to a woman and you might even feel it yourself.
Compliments – Although you might think that she knows that you think that she’s beautiful, or that you are thankful for all the little things she does for you, the truth is that she still wants to hear the words come from your mouth. Try not to overdo it but one or two compliments a day can literally bring joy into a woman’s heart. Telling her that you love her and why will completely bowl her over so…try it sometime! Tell her that you love her and that you love the way she looks first thing in the morning; all sleepy, or tell her that you love when she looks at you with that twinkle in her eye. Make her day! After all, she is the woman that you love, right?
Follow this advice and you will be well on your way to creating a real connection with your wife or girlfriend and laying the foundation for true seduction and becoming the type of man that she brags about to all her girlfriends.
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